Father’s Day Stories: What A Creepy Old Dude Taught Me About Fatherhood
Since it is that time of the year where we celebrate dads, I’ve seen lots of stuff written online, about fatherhood. Father’s Day stories galore! Anyway, I figured I’d chip in with my two cents. An encounter happened a couple of weeks ago, which reinforced some valuable dad lessons. Lemme tell you the story.
See, it started off innocent enough. J is invited to a birthday party, for one of the girls in her dance class, along with the other kids in the class. Because J’s only three years old, it wasn’t one of those parties where we could drop her off and come back later to pick her up. We had to stick around for it. As such, K agreed to take her. This was all good, on my end, too. The idea of spending an afternoon mingling with strangers and dance moms who I barely knew wasn’t super appealing to me. #sociallyawkward
So, of course you know what happened.
Because of something which came up last minute, K could no longer make it to the party. J was really stoked to go, however. Not wanting to let her down, I agreed to go, instead.
The girl’s parents were having the party at their house, so I plugged the address that was on the invitation into my GPS, and off we went. Here’s the thing, though, which I discovered after the fact – in Hamilton, there is more than one of that address. For the sake of protecting the innocent, let’s say the address was 123 Sesame Street. In Hamilton, there’s 123 Sesame Street East, 123 Sesame Street West, 123 Old Sesame Street, and 123 Sesame Street in a town near Hamilton that isn’t Hamilton, but is considered Hamilton on maps.
We eventually arrived at our destination, per the GPS. I immediately thought something didn’t seem right, but stupidly ignored all of the warning signs. First, there were no cars in the driveway. I brushed that off, though, as people parking in the strip mall lot, across the street. Second, I didn’t see a bouncy castle in the backyard, and there was supposed to have been one. I brush this off, too. The weather is being iffy, so maybe they move everything indoors. Thirdly, the house was dark. In another moment of brilliance, I blew this off as the party probably being held in the basement. Despite these red flags, I parked across the street, got J out of her car seat, grabbed the present that we bought, and strolled up to the house.
The walkway had a bunch of weathered looking plants along it. The whole place was eerily silent and had a Bates Motel vibe. When we got to the door, I scooped J up in one arm, and rang the doorbell with my other hand. After a few seconds (which felt like 10 minutes), an older hobbled man emerged, and opened the door slightly. He must have been in his 70s, with a resemblance to Paul Newman. He glared out at me, so I said in a meek voice “Hi! We are here for the party?”
Upon hearing this, his demeanour immediately changed. He straightened up, smiled, and pushed the door open. “Come on in”, he said. He started to wave his arms, to invite us in.
Woohoo! Guess I was in the right place after all. What a relief!
Before entering, I ask him if anyone else was here. He shook his head. I then asked if he knew who Ellie (the birthday girl) was. “No”, he calmly replied.
This was not the right place! Even worse, we were about to be the guests of honour at this guy’s impromptu party! I quickly told him that we had the wrong address and scurried off. As we ran, I turned around, to see if had gone back inside. He was still in his doorway, grinning like the Cheshire Cat. Or Hannibal Lecter. Maybe he was thinking about what else he could have with his fava beans and chianti. I don’t know. I don’t ever want to know. This isn’t turning out to be like one of those happy Father’s Day stories, however.
Anyway, it turns out that my GPS is incorrect (it didn’t tell me how to get to Sesame Street). I made a quick call to the birthday girl’s parents, to get the real directions to their house. We made it there not long after. To top if off, J and I both had a good time at the party.
Looking back on that day, I realize now that there are some lessons to take from it, as it pertains to fatherhood. It makes for one of my most random Father’s Day stories. For one, even though we won’t always like the things that our kids do, we still need to suck it up, and support them, regardless. Also, when it comes navigating anything (directions, your kids through their lives etc), sometimes you’re going to make some wrong turns. Don’t sweat it; what you do after you make those wrong turns is really all that matters. Most importantly, we owe it to our lil ones to always protect them. When a creepy old dude tells you and your kid/kids to come on in, never come on in.
Happy Father’s Day, y’all!
2 thoughts on “Father’s Day Stories: What A Creepy Old Dude Taught Me About Fatherhood”
Glad you made it to the party and it went well despite the wrong turns.
Thanks, Larry! Yes, everything worked out in the end, can’t complain.